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Inside A Marriage Counselling Session

 Ever wondered what happens inside a marraige counselling session? Well I can't tell you what happens in other sessions, but I CAN tell you what happens in mine.

Posted: 10/10/2016 3:19:53 PM with 0 comments

Don't give up on your marriage

 Great strategies from an author and marriage counsellor on how to re-connect again...

Posted: 10/10/2016 10:59:25 AM with 0 comments

What are some of the ways that YOU show your partner how much you love them?

When I am counselling couples, I frequently outline ways we can show our partner we love them. Feel free to check this great list out, and add some more of your own...

Posted: 22/09/2014 5:56:26 PM with 0 comments

Resolve Anger, Reduce Resentment

 Is your relationship complicated? Do you feel disconnected from your spouse? Do you feel constantly irritated by them?

Posted: 29/01/2014 12:29:56 PM with 0 comments

Do you wish it was easier to be a parent?

Parenting, just like life and relationships, can be a real challenge. So what makes these areas easier? A little strategy. Knowing what to do can make all the difference. These steps are a compilation of all my studies in counselling and the associated research I have completed for both my books. May these tips bring more peace, joy and love to your family life. xx

Posted: 12/09/2013 10:00:36 AM with 0 comments

An Unhappy Marriage Equals An Unhappy Life!

How can you be happy in life, if you are unhappy in love? 

Posted: 16/04/2013 9:40:50 PM with 0 comments

The magic of Direct Communication

When I married my sweetheart in 1991, I didn't know how to be married. No-one taught me how to communicate. I would not be married today if I did not learn the following art of Direct Communication...

Posted: 18/06/2012 10:33:37 PM with 0 comments

An awesome marriage is about two people getting what they want - so start being selfish!

Sure, you need to look at this marriage as a glass, where you both put in more than half a glass each. You need to be passioante, dedicated and work at it. But what so many couples seem to forget, is this: It IS all about you!!

Posted: 16/01/2012 12:56:34 PM with 2 comments

Why is your relationship sometimes so hard?

Relationships, just like life, can sometimes be very challenging. Are you finding your relationship constantly hard?

Posted: 7/12/2011 9:29:03 PM with 5 comments

Why is a healthy sex life so important in a marriage?

Behind closed door, what are the issues, and how to address them?

Posted: 25/03/2011 3:36:20 PM with 0 comments

Why structure your marriage?

Why do rules work in a relationship?

Posted: 14/03/2011 12:24:26 PM with 0 comments

What I love about Birthdays!!!

Far to often in life, we forget about ourselves.

Posted: 17/11/2010 4:45:42 PM with 7 comments

Don't negatively reflect; Positively expect!

Some thoughts from my next book, a Life Survival Guide (to be released 2011):


Posted: 29/09/2010 12:07:35 PM with 3 comments

Survive An Affair - 10 Tips

This tragic event can be turned into a lesson; in which you both can learn about: each other, what was missing, and ultimately become closer in the relationship.

Posted: 21/05/2010 10:23:41 PM with 7 comments

The power of thought in a relationship

Relationship success is not necessarily all about 'what you do for him, and what he does for you'. Your mind plays a HUGE part...

Posted: 13/05/2010 10:54:52 AM with 0 comments

Low Sex Drive (Is it gone forever?)

My partner and I are no longer interested in sex. Is it possible to lust after them again?

Posted: 30/04/2010 11:58:26 AM with 1 comments

Silent Treatments

Whether you feel you are the one to apologize, or if you have had enough (and are filled with resentment), you need to ask yourself, 'Is what I am doing right now bringing me closer to my partner, or further away from them?'

Posted: 8/04/2010 5:02:34 PM with 2 comments