I was very excited when my book arrived today. I immediately opened it and started reading. I have read up to page 41, Step Three  communicate well every day. So far, I like what I have read. It flows very well and is NOT boring, I am so interested, I keep turning the pages. I did flip ahead and couldn't help but notice the sex section (surprise, surprise). I was very impressed with page 79, habitual leg crosser, quote: If you reject his advances all the time you are literally chipping away at the very foundations of his being. This happened in my first long term relationship and it affected my self esteem so much, it took ages and ages to clear away the negative effects. Even though my wife now is very good at NOT doing this, in the early years I was sensitive. So I am impressed that you have mentioned this, because many women just don't get it. And generally men won't talk about it. I am looking forward to getting up to the sex section and reading ALL about it. Look forward to watching your interview on Oprah one day!